...continued The Pitiful Prostitution of Single Mothers (c) RLLC 2015
First comes Love, then comes Marriage, then comes having sex. Anyone who has sex, without the explicit intention and purpose to create a new life, is simply pretending that's not what the act was made for. No wonder scripture is so adamant about protecting the marriage bed. It's where we get to create life of our own. Making love; is our given moment in time, to bear witness and yield to the Universe's abundant and expansive creative energy. Where life that did not exist before, is suddenly sparked into existence by the mutual love shared between its parents and is carried until birth without anything more than the genetic coding it began with.
I'm not sure it's possible to be in this sacred act of intercourse, without at least acknowledging the scope and breadth of what you're doing, even if it's only a split second, ["Did I remember to bring a condom? I don't need to have kid right now." "I wonder if he could be the guy for me? Did I take the pill today?"]. It's exciting because it's so important to the survival of our species for One), Two) It's important to our psyches and our physical well-being.
We will ultimately pay a price for stubbornly persisting through fields which will yield no fruit and ignoring the obvious reality that sex=babies=LIFE. 1+1=3 . We are born to become sexual beings, we are created with the capacity for great love and nurturing, who are we kidding ourselves today, saying "I prefer to be single," or "I don't want to be married." Truth: you don't want to be with any of the guys you've met 'so far' and men, you haven't found a girl worth marrying. Besides: WhATs the POINT?
It is especially upsetting when we don't even get what we believe we we're buying into; undying love, which is a fallacy. It was only nature's way of bringing you close enough to complete the circle. Left 'untied' it will fall apart.
Not all bonding makes a baby, but that is also what commitment is for. It seems silly to invest all that time, service, energy and 'love' into someone that isn't even sure they want to stick around. This was a whole different matter back in the days where dating and sex were not synonymous. People moved on a lot faster, their animal brain had not been switched on yet by sex, their vision was clear and their motives were untainted.
When sex finally did occur, within the marriage bed, it was safe grounds. Safe from rejection (what we fear most from our parents), and perfectly in line with nature's intention. For even if a baby does not result, the couple have a reason to carry forward, hoping a baby does result, no matter how many times they have to try.
...more to come. Thanks for reading.
I'm not sure it's possible to be in this sacred act of intercourse, without at least acknowledging the scope and breadth of what you're doing, even if it's only a split second, ["Did I remember to bring a condom? I don't need to have kid right now." "I wonder if he could be the guy for me? Did I take the pill today?"]. It's exciting because it's so important to the survival of our species for One), Two) It's important to our psyches and our physical well-being.
We will ultimately pay a price for stubbornly persisting through fields which will yield no fruit and ignoring the obvious reality that sex=babies=LIFE. 1+1=3 . We are born to become sexual beings, we are created with the capacity for great love and nurturing, who are we kidding ourselves today, saying "I prefer to be single," or "I don't want to be married." Truth: you don't want to be with any of the guys you've met 'so far' and men, you haven't found a girl worth marrying. Besides: WhATs the POINT?
It is especially upsetting when we don't even get what we believe we we're buying into; undying love, which is a fallacy. It was only nature's way of bringing you close enough to complete the circle. Left 'untied' it will fall apart.
Not all bonding makes a baby, but that is also what commitment is for. It seems silly to invest all that time, service, energy and 'love' into someone that isn't even sure they want to stick around. This was a whole different matter back in the days where dating and sex were not synonymous. People moved on a lot faster, their animal brain had not been switched on yet by sex, their vision was clear and their motives were untainted.
When sex finally did occur, within the marriage bed, it was safe grounds. Safe from rejection (what we fear most from our parents), and perfectly in line with nature's intention. For even if a baby does not result, the couple have a reason to carry forward, hoping a baby does result, no matter how many times they have to try.
...more to come. Thanks for reading.
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